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Money—we use it everyday
and are constantly forced to make decisions about it. What should
we buy? Should we save it or spend it? How much should we spend?
Do we really need new shoes or just want them?
Whether we are young
or old our everyday spending decisions can have a much greater negative
impact on our financial futures than any other investments we might
make. Knowledge and experience (learning from our past mistakes)
can help us make good financial decisions. When it comes to money,
what we don’t know can really hurt us!
Bad money habits learned
as a tween can lead to even bigger problems later. Help your child
learn these money lessons for a secure financial future:
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Money doesn’t
equal self-worth. Teach your tween that it’s not how much money
we have that’s important. It’s what we do with our money that’s the
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All money
decisions have consequences. Everybody makes money mistakes—the
smart people learn from them. Share some of your money mistakes and
the consequences. When your child makes a mistake help the child see
what other choices could have been made. |
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Planning
makes money go further. Encourage your tween to set a financial
goal, i.e., saving for a stereo and make a chart showing how saving
some money each week or every month can make owning a stereo a reality.
Compare how much more the stereo would cost if you had to make payments.
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Rainy days
happen—plan for them. Encourage your child to plan for the unexpected.
Share your personal experiences with unexpected car repairs or a broken
refrigerator. Each of these can be a crisis for a family with no emergency
fund or merely an inconvenience for a family with savings. |
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You’ll
never be rich if you spend more than you make. Practice “pay yourself
first.” Encourage your child to save some money form each allowance
or paycheck before spending any money. Putting money aside regularly
is the key to building a “nest egg” and reaching your financial goals. |
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Smart people
put their money to work making more money. Teach your tween about
interest and the power of compounding. |
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Credit
is not free money and credit cards send a message: SPEND. Teach
your tween that credit is really “renting someone else’s money” and
it is very expensive. Give them a concrete example of how much more
something costs when you buy it on credit. For example, that stereo
they have their eye on costs $499. If they buy it on credit –paying
$31.85 a month for 18 months with 18.8% interest, that same stereo
will cost $575. They could buy a few CD’s with the difference. |
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Return to the Table
of Contents or continue to the Introduction,
Consistent Discipline,
Structure,
Role
Models, Values,
Good
Nutrition, Survival
Skills, or Resistance
Skills.
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